Which Love Language is most important to you?

Words of Affirmation: The tongue has the power of life and death.”

Everyone enjoys compliments but some people require more reassurance and encouragement than others. To the people who need you to voice how much you love and appreciate them often, words of affirmation are most important.

Quality Time: “It’s only quality when the attention is undivided.”

Some people are loners and mostly enjoy quality time with themselves. Others find quality time with their lovers to be one of the most important aspects of a relationship. I personally love being around my boyfriend, especially when we both have nothing to do. Interactions are so much more pure when you genuinely want to be around each other.

Receiving Gifts: “The Heart of Love is the spirit of giving”

Gifts are often ways to prove that someone was thinking of you and this is important for some people and often seen as the way to prove your love. Material items also sometimes hold very important memories of you and your significant other. People who value these things find receiving gifts are what makes them most happy.

Acts of Service: “I simply do things I know he would like.”

Acts of service are not always grand gestures. Its the little things that often count the most in relationships. When someone’s primary love language is acts of service they are often the type of person who finds the sentimental value in simple things like Netflix & Pizza with the one that they love.

Physical Touch: “Touch is the way the to communicate emotional love.”

Being near your lover is the most important factor for those whose primary language is physical touch. Knowing that they are there, even in silence is comforting to you and the way that you feel truly loved.

 

XOXO Natalia

 

 

How do you get out of the “Friend-zone”?

Ask Questions

People often fall into the friend-zone because they are afraid that asking certain questions will make the other party uncomfortable or ruin their chances. Realistically, inquiring if you’re on the same page as someone else will only make them uncomfortable if they don’t feel the same way and in that case you wont wasting anymore time fantasizing or wondering what could be.

Assert Yourself

How is anyone going to know how you feel if you don’t speak up for yourself? Closed mouths don’t get fed so you have to voice your opinion. People usually get friend zoned when they are not aggressive enough, don’t get handsy, but let your feelings be known so that the other person can decide how they feel about you.

Be Honest

Sometimes we already know when someone just doesn’t like us romantically. Its not that hard to read people so don’t avoid the signs. If you flirt and they seem uncomfortable or if you invite them out one on one and they are always doing something else or don’t seem too excited by the idea, just be friends!

 

XOXO Natalia