Which Love Language is most important to you?

Words of Affirmation: The tongue has the power of life and death.”

Everyone enjoys compliments but some people require more reassurance and encouragement than others. To the people who need you to voice how much you love and appreciate them often, words of affirmation are most important.

Quality Time: “It’s only quality when the attention is undivided.”

Some people are loners and mostly enjoy quality time with themselves. Others find quality time with their lovers to be one of the most important aspects of a relationship. I personally love being around my boyfriend, especially when we both have nothing to do. Interactions are so much more pure when you genuinely want to be around each other.

Receiving Gifts: “The Heart of Love is the spirit of giving”

Gifts are often ways to prove that someone was thinking of you and this is important for some people and often seen as the way to prove your love. Material items also sometimes hold very important memories of you and your significant other. People who value these things find receiving gifts are what makes them most happy.

Acts of Service: “I simply do things I know he would like.”

Acts of service are not always grand gestures. Its the little things that often count the most in relationships. When someone’s primary love language is acts of service they are often the type of person who finds the sentimental value in simple things like Netflix & Pizza with the one that they love.

Physical Touch: “Touch is the way the to communicate emotional love.”

Being near your lover is the most important factor for those whose primary language is physical touch. Knowing that they are there, even in silence is comforting to you and the way that you feel truly loved.

 

XOXO Natalia

 

 

How do you get out of the “Friend-zone”?

Ask Questions

People often fall into the friend-zone because they are afraid that asking certain questions will make the other party uncomfortable or ruin their chances. Realistically, inquiring if you’re on the same page as someone else will only make them uncomfortable if they don’t feel the same way and in that case you wont wasting anymore time fantasizing or wondering what could be.

Assert Yourself

How is anyone going to know how you feel if you don’t speak up for yourself? Closed mouths don’t get fed so you have to voice your opinion. People usually get friend zoned when they are not aggressive enough, don’t get handsy, but let your feelings be known so that the other person can decide how they feel about you.

Be Honest

Sometimes we already know when someone just doesn’t like us romantically. Its not that hard to read people so don’t avoid the signs. If you flirt and they seem uncomfortable or if you invite them out one on one and they are always doing something else or don’t seem too excited by the idea, just be friends!

 

XOXO Natalia

Which Love & Hip Hop character are you?

 

Your man surprises you when you get home, with what?

  1. Money ( The best gift in the world)
  2. Some gossip (He know you love fresh hot tea)
  3. A stripper pole (So y’all can get it poppin at the crib)
  4. He just came home (You love him and missed him so much)
  5. Jewelry (That’s the life of a wife)

Ya’ll plan a date night, where?

  1. Karaoke/Open Mic (You love attention)
  2. Double Date (You want to catch up with your other friends)
  3. Strip club (Your fave place!)
  4. You stay in (he likes being home with you)
  5. Fancy Restaurant (He knows you have good taste) 

Your friends have one word to describe you, what do they use(BE HONEST)?

  1. Fiesty
  2. Nosey
  3. FUN
  4. Naive
  5. Boujee

You dress up to go out, what do you wear?

  1. Something that show’s maximum skin
  2. Something that makes you look younger
  3. Something that shows off all your curves
  4. Something simple
  5. Something expensive

Relationship Status ?

  1. Single
  2. Dating
  3. Pimpin
  4. Complicated
  5. In a Relationship

 

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Joseline Hernandez

If you answered mostly 1’s you are like “The Puerto Rican Princess” spicy with a side of mild. You normally don’t take shit and your temper is easily flared but to the one’s you love you are super sweet.

 

 

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Karlie Redd

If you answered mostly 2’s you are probably the queen of mess in your group who gets the most shade. Stop telling everyone’s business girl!

 

 

 

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Cardi B

If you answered mostly 3’s you are the most turnt in your circle of friends. People usually call you for advice because they know that you will tell them what they wanna hear. You’re really cute so girls usually wanna beef with you “FOREVAAAA”.

 

 

Tara Wallace lhh4

If you answered mostly 4’s you are probably stuck in a situationship that just might last forever. You are the girl who has the had the same man forever but instead of envy, people feel sympathy for you. Let him go sis.

 

 

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Yandy Smith-“Harris”

If you answered mostly 5’s more than likely  you are bougie. Your life is just better than everyone elses in your opinion and thats just how you feel. You are also super shady and two faced. Pick a side and stay there.

 

Cardi B is personally my fave! How about you?

 

XOXO Natalia

Is Social Media affecting your relationships?

In the age of social media you sometimes have to look up from your phone and ask yourself some serious life questions.

Let me help:

Do you look at your phone while people are talking to you?

Do you text during dates?

Do you take a picture of everything you eat?

Do you check your phone when you wake up in the middle of the night?

DING DING DING! You my friend have an addiction if you answered Yes to one or more of those questions. This addiction may be holding you back in the following ways:

  • You may be missing connections

If you are always on your phone there is a strong chance that you are missing out on meeting great people everyday.

  • You may be ignoring your loved ones

When i’m out to dinner I always put my phone away so that my boyfriend gets my undivided attention and he does the same. Imagine how you would feel if someone started scrolling down their timeline while you were talking to them. RUDE!

  • You may be losing your interpersonal skills

Social media addicts often becoming socially awkward in real life settings because they are so used to sharing their thoughts to strangers via the internet. Don’t become the weirdo at the party in the corner on their phone all night.

  • You may be giving up too much information

People often begin to post about what they are currently watching, eating, reading, and sometimes even where they are going. This can be dangerous because of all the creeps out there who are lurking the internet. Certain things you should keep to yourself!

Put your phone down for a certain amount of time per day and participate in the REAL WORLD! 

XOXO Natalia

Date Rape Drug Detecting Nail Polish

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A post on the Undercover Colors Facebook page explains the product and its use:

While date rape drugs are often used to facilitate sexual assault, very little science exists for their detection. Our goal is to invent technologies that empower women to protect themselves from this heinous and quietly pervasive crime.

For our first product, we are developing a nail polish that changes color when it comes in contact with date rape drugs such as Rohypnol, Xanax, and GHB. With our nail polish, any woman will be empowered to discreetly ensure her safety by simply stirring her drink with her finger. If her nail polish changes color, she’ll know that something is wrong.