You are always planning things that never happen
If someone really wants to see you then meeting up won’t be like pulling teeth. When you find yourself being regularly canceled on or rescheduled you just might be dealing with someone who doesn’t want to hang out. Either way, BOSS UP and stop begging for their time. You can do better.
You get left on read or sent to voicemail a lot
Although some people are, not everyone is an all day everyday texter, and you can’t expect for anyone to be glued to their phone ready to respond to you at the drop of a dime. However, if you are being ignored via text message for hours on end and sent to voicemail most of the time you call, the person you are trying to reach probably wants to be left alone (at least by you. sorry). So, stop waiting by the phone because there is a 99.9% chance it’s not going to ring.
You make more of an effort
If it seems that you are always compromising, being the bigger person, or turning the other cheek, you may want to look into getting some reciprocity. Dating is an equal effort despite popular opinion. Yes, the man (or whatever your preference) is supposed to court the woman, but she is expected to show equal interest in him. When you get that funny feeling that you have been getting the runaround, YOU HAVE. So, move on to someone who’s on your level.
You don’t know any of their family or friends
If you are an important part of someone’s life than you should be introduced to the most important people in their life. People often show off what is important to them, good grades, a new job, car, or house, and a new partner. If the family and friends don’t know about you, then you should be questioning why you’re being hidden.
They don’t remember important facts about you
No one is going to remember every single little detail about you except your mother (maybe not even her). However, if you’re dating someone and they can’t even remember your birthday or hometown, they probably aren’t listening to you when you speak.
If you’re dealing with any of these types of problems, don’t. When you know better, you do better!